Boating with Friends: 7 Ways to Be a Good Boat Guest

Boating with friends can be an amazing experience—whether it’s a leisurely cruise, a fishing expedition, or a day of watersports. However, as a guest on someone else’s boat, you have certain responsibilities to ensure the trip goes smoothly and everyone has a great time. Being a good boat guest means showing respect, lending a hand, and contributing to the overall enjoyment of the outing. Here are 7 keyways to be a good boat guest and enhance everyone’s experience on the water.

1. Pack Light, But Smart

Boats often have limited space, so packing efficiently is essential. You want to bring the essentials without overburdening the boat’s storage areas. Consider what you’ll need for the day—sunscreen, a hat, sunglasses, a towel, and possibly a change of clothes.

  • Cost Considerations: A high-quality dry bag (typically around $20-$40) can protect your valuables and clothing from water exposure.
  • Specs: Look for a dry bag that is waterproof (IPX6 rating or higher), durable, and comes in various sizes (10L-30L depending on the trip).

Remember to keep your gear organized and in designated areas to avoid clutter, which can pose a tripping hazard.

2. Respect the Boat’s Rules

Every boat owner has their own set of rules—whether it’s no shoes on the deck, designated seating areas, or guidelines for using the head (bathroom). Listen carefully to your host’s instructions, and follow them to the letter. These rules are in place not only for comfort but also for safety.

  • Example: Some boat owners may prefer barefoot only on deck to avoid damaging the surface. In this case, bring non-marking boat shoes, which can cost around $50-$100 for a good pair.

Pay attention to the onboard protocols, and don’t assume that what’s acceptable on land is okay on water.

3. Offer to Contribute

Boating can be expensive. Fuel, maintenance, dock fees, and cleaning supplies all add up. While your host may not expect you to contribute to the financial upkeep, it’s always polite to offer to chip in, especially for fuel or refreshments.

  • Fuel Costs: On average, motorized boats consume between 5 to 25 gallons of fuel per hour, with fuel prices averaging around $4-$5 per gallon. Offering to cover part of this cost is a thoughtful gesture.

Consider bringing snacks, drinks, or other supplies like ice, which are easy and appreciated contributions. Confirm ahead of time what’s appropriate—some boat owners might prefer specific beverages or snack types to avoid messes.

4. Be Willing to Help Out

Boating requires coordination and teamwork, especially when docking, anchoring, or setting up for water activities. As a guest, it’s courteous to lend a hand when needed. Whether it’s tying up lines, helping with the anchor, or simply holding the boat steady while others board, offering your assistance shows respect for the boat and crew.

  • Learn Basic Boating Terms: It’s helpful to understand boating terms like “port” (left), “starboard” (right), and “bow” (front), which makes it easier to follow instructions quickly.

A good boat guest is proactive—don’t wait to be asked if you see an opportunity to help.

5. Practice Good Boat Etiquette

Boat etiquette is key to maintaining harmony onboard. This includes being mindful of others’ personal space, not taking over the best seats, and not playing loud music unless everyone agrees. Respect the boat’s cleanliness as well—avoid spilling food or drink, and help clean up if necessary.

  • Cost Considerations: If you’re bringing music, consider a compact, waterproof Bluetooth speaker ($50-$150). Popular options include models from JBL or Ultimate Ears with IPX7 ratings, making them suitable for water environments.

Understanding that space is shared will make the day more pleasant for everyone.

6. Respect the Water

Many boating trips involve swimming, snorkeling, or diving. Make sure you’re comfortable in the water, know your limits, and follow safety guidelines like wearing a life jacket when necessary. Keep in mind that boat owners may have certain safety rules for water activities, such as when to swim or how far you can venture from the boat.

  • Life Jacket Cost: A comfortable and reliable life jacket typically costs around $30-$100, depending on the style and brand. You can find lightweight, auto-inflating options that are both comfortable and unobtrusive.

Always ask the boat owner for safety instructions before jumping in.

7. Be Grateful and Show Appreciation

A day out on the water is a generous gift from your host, so be sure to express your gratitude. A simple thank you goes a long way, but you can also follow up with a thoughtful gesture after the trip. This could be anything from offering to pay for the next trip’s fuel or sending a thank-you note with a small gift, such as a boat-themed memento.

  • Gift Ideas: Boat-themed gifts, like personalized boating accessories, can range from $20 to $50. A floating keychain with their boat’s name or a custom nautical-themed item can make a meaningful thank-you.

Showing appreciation for the opportunity will likely earn you another invite!

Final Thoughts

Being a good boat guest isn’t complicated, but it does require some mindfulness and consideration. By packing smart, respecting the boat’s rules, offering to contribute, helping out, practicing good etiquette, respecting water safety, and showing appreciation, you’ll ensure your host enjoys having you on board just as much as you enjoy being there.

Happy Boating!

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